“你看到的就是你得到的”， 这样的说法你一定听过。我爷爷常常说:“如果你长
时间盯着一棵树看,他看起来就会移动了。”我们看在眼里的就是我们想要看的东西。心理学家告诉我们,比任何东西更能控制我们人生的是我们的自我意象。我们像在镜子里看到的自己一样地活着。自己是自我感觉的自己。如果你不认为自己会
成功,那你就不会成功。你看不到也就达不到。你的人生是受你的抱负限制的。如果你想改变你的人生,你就必须改变你的人生理想。
阿诺·施瓦辛格在1976年遇见一位报社记者的时候还不太有名。那位记者问施瓦辛格:“你现在从健美这一行退休下来,下一步准备做什么?”施瓦辛格平静而自信地回答:“我将成为好莱坞一流的电影明星”。那位记者对施瓦辛格的计划感到惊讶、可笑。在当时,人们很难想像这位肌肉结实的健美运动员,因为他既非职业演员而且奥地利口音很重,英语很差。
当那位记者问施瓦辛格怎样计划使梦想成真,施瓦辛格答道:“我会照着使我成为世界一流的健美运动员的方法去做。我先设想出自己想成为的那个人的形象,然后开始像我心里想像的那个人那样去
生活。”乍听起来是不是单纯得像孩子话?但事实证明这样做他的确成功了!施瓦辛格真的成了好莱坞收入第一的电影明星!记住:“如果你能看得到,你就能做得到”。
我认识一位很成功的商人,他穿着的T恤衫印着这样的话:“不要只追逐你的梦,要紧追不舍,逮住它!”人生只有一次,为什么不过得最精彩呢?那样的话你就可以为你所想到的和所得到的感到满足。好好想想吧!
What You See is What you GET
You’ve heard the expression, “What you see is what you get.” My grandfather used to say: “If you looked at a tree long enough, it will move.” We see what we want to see. Psychologists tell us that nothing controls our lives more than our self-image. We live like the person we see in the mirror. We are what we think we are. If you don’t think you’ll be successful, You won’t. You can’t be it if you can’t see it. Your life is limited to your vision. If you want to change your life, you must change your vision of your life.
Arnold Schwarzenegger was not that famous in 1976 when he met with a newspaper reporter. The reporter asked Schwarzenegger: “Now that you’ve retired from bodybuilding, what do you plan to do next? Schwarzenegger answered very calmly and confidently: ”I’m going to be the movie star in Hollywood.“ The reporter was shocked and amused at Schwarzenegger’s plan. At that time, it was very hard to imagine how this muscle-bound bodybuilder, who was not a professional actor and who spoke poor English with an strong Austrian accent, could ever hope to be Hollywood’s movie star!
So the reporter asked Schwarzenegger how he planned to make his dream come true, Schwarzenegger said: “I’ll do it the same way I became the bodybuilder in the world. What I do was to create a vision of who I want to be, then I start living like that person in my mind as if it were already true.” Sounds almost childishly simple, doesn’t it? But it worked! Schwarzenegger DID become the first class highest paid movie star in Hollywood! Remember: “If you can see it, you can be it.”
A successful businessman I know wears a shirt with these words on it: “Don’t just pursue your dreams. Chase ’em down and tackle ’em!” You only get one life to live, so why not live the best life possible? So you can be fully satisfied at what you see and get. Just think a minute!
